In the last post we examined how the process of change happens. But, what we really want to know is how it works in our real lives. And, I would contend, that is God's desire too. He doesn't just want you to gain more Bible knowledge. He actually wants to change you. Mike Bullmore has said, "the Bible is not like an informative speech. It is more like a persuasive speech. There is always an objective that God is after." God desires to change us from one degree of glory to the next. Now let's examine two different scenarios of change.
Family Tension:
Many students experience this in one way or another. As we grow into maturity we begin to forge our own lives. The process is painful on both sides. Young adults(students) are trying to make their own decisions and parents are still trying to be parents. The fact is, it is hard.
So, how does the gospel apply to this situation? First, we need to recognize a very real command from Scripture. "Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord" (Colossians 3:20). Great! Now not only do my parents annoy me, but now also the Bible annoys me! How can I make it out of this tension alive?!
The key is found in the context of the command. Colossians 3 is a chapter that focuses on the work of Christ in our lives. It even says, "Your life is hidden with Christ in God" (vs. 3). Now all of your actions come out of that right relationship with Him. God is saying here, that when you have the gospel deep down in your identity, you will be able to relate to family in a way that is honoring.
You can lay down your rights to make all your own choices. You can suffer ridicule from your parents. You can handle it when the chores overwhelm you and the rules would usually suffocate you. Here is why. You are loved by God. Christ died in your place. You have peace.
So, now instead of falling apart when your relationship with your earthly parent is not well, you have the eternal hope that your relationship with your Loving Father is perfect.
Instead of demanding your rights, you can lay them down as you seek to imitate Christ.
Instead of feeling crushed by the neglect, you stand proud that you are a daughter of the King. All benefits of the household is yours. His love toward you is perfect.
Instead of blowing up in rage and talking back, you can quietly do what has been asked of you. Just like Christ was lead out like a lamb before the slaughter... He was silent. So are you.
Instead of seeking to get even when your parents wrong you, you return kindness instead. Much like when you rebelled against God he did not treat you as your sins deserved. But instead, He lavished you with grace.
When your siblings would have annoyed you, you instead treat them with compassion, patience, and grace... just like you received from the Father.
All this stems from the gospel. You can't muster these feelings up on your own. It is when the Holy Spirit applies the magnificence of Christ to your heart that this change happens. If this is a struggle that you own, talk to a leader about it. We want you to experience the joy of salvation! We want you to experience the peace that can come to your relationship with your family. We are praying for you.
Another post to follow...
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